Mary M. Kowalkowski, 88, our dear mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister and aunt, died suddenly on Jan. 22, 2014, at IU Health LaPorte Hospital surrounded by her loving family.
She was born Mary Martha Bladecki in Rolling Prairie, IN, on Feb. 24, 1925, to Lawrence A. “Vernie” and Josephine (Pekofski) Bladecki, the third of seven children.
Mary graduated from Rolling Prairie High School in 1943 and began working at Allis-Chalmers, LaPorte, in the mailroom. As a young woman, she was introduced to the love of her life, John I. Kowalkowski, and corresponded with him throughout his service during World War II. After his return home, they were married on May 3, 1947, at St. John Kanty Catholic Church in Rolling Prairie.
Mary was a beautiful matriarch who was devoted to her husband and family. As a mom, she made taffy apples for school bazaars, sewed sashes for the graduating class (and did many other jobs without complaint that her children volunteered her for), and warmly opened her home to neighborhood children and school friends. As her children grew older, she took a job as a clerk at Essling’s dry cleaners in LaPorte and mentioned often how much she enjoyed working with the public. As a grandma, she spent many Sunday afternoons putting together puzzles, playing cards, and making her grandchildren feel like the most important people in the world. She took great pleasure in knowing what special treats her great-grandchildren would most enjoy. Later in her life, as her husband’s health declined, she tended to him with untiring compassion.
Mary served her community for years in the St. Vincent DePaul Society, served on the funeral committee, worked as a money counter, and did many other “behind the scenes” jobs for St. Joseph’s Parish in LaPorte. She had a fantastic memory and always remembered to send birthday and anniversary cards, even as her extended family grew very large. She was grateful when people thought of her and never failed to send a beautifully handwritten personal note of thanks. She was the loveliest lady in the lives of those who were blessed to know her.
She enjoyed quilting, working on family genealogy and spending time in her garden. She liked baking and canning and was famous for her apple pies. Most of all she enjoyed spending time with her family and making those around her happy and comfortable. A most gentle quiet light who never spoke an unkind word, Mary was the epitome of grace, humility and selflessness.
Mary is survived by her daughter, Joan (Rex) Stone of LaPorte, and son, James (Debra) Kowalkowski of Muncie, IN; her grandchildren, Jennifer (Russell) Hopper, Jason Stone, Juliette (Jed) Joseph, Jeremiah (Kathryn) Stone, Matthew (Theresa) Kowalkowski, and Michael (Leo) Kowalkowski; her great-grandchildren, Diana, Andrew, Isaac, Jennifer, Autumn, Payton, Sofie, Elizabeth, RJ, Miranda, Evan, Easton, and Mariah; one sister, Rosella Tuszynski of Gary, IN; two brothers, George (Mary Lou) Bladecki of Rolling Prairie and Andrew Bladecki of LaPorte; her brother in law, Bert Stopczynski of LaPorte; and many beloved nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.
She was preceded in death by her husband; her granddaughter, Jodi Stone; one sister and two brothers.
A Mass of Christian burial will take place Monday, Jan. 27, at 10 a.m. at St. Joseph Catholic Church, LaPorte, with Rev. Eduardo Malagon officiating. Friends and family will be welcomed at Essling Funeral Home, LaPorte, on Sunday, Jan. 26, from 2 to 7 p.m. and on Monday from 8:30 to 9:30 a.m. The rosary will be recited at 6 p.m. Sunday at the funeral home. Burial will follow the Mass in St. Joseph Catholic Cemetery, LaPorte.
Memorial contributions may be made to St. Joseph Catholic Church, 109 C St., LaPorte, IN 46350, or to the donor’s choice.
Messages of condolence may be posted below on WNLP, as well as at www.esslingfuneralhome.com.